The True Buddha Nichiren Daishonin born in 13th Century Japan writes in a Gosho (Buddhist Bible) called "Earthy Desires Equal Enlightenment:
These are teachings of prime importance. These are also what is called “earthly desires are enlightenment,” and “the sufferings of birth and death are nirvana.” Chanting Nam-myoho-renge-kyo during the physical union of man and woman is indeed what is called “earthly desires are enlightenment,” and “the sufferings of birth and death are nirvana.” “The sufferings of birth and death are nirvana” exists only in realizing that the entity of life throughout its cycle of birth and death is neither born nor destroyed. The Universal Worthy Sutra states, “Without either cutting off earthly desires or separating themselves from the five desires, they can purify all their senses and wipe away all their offenses.”
In a December 26, 2009 New York Times article is was reported that Earl Woods the Father of Tiger Woods Gave him some advice.
“I’ve told Tiger that marriage is unnecessary in a mobile society like ours.”
We all seek wisdom in life and we try to make the correct decisions regarding life and living.  The question we ask; if Tiger Woods were single would this be the way to live an acceptable life in our society?  What does religion of Nichiren Daishonin's Buddhism  say about such behavior?
The profound teachings of Nichiren Daishonin's True Buddhism takes our society into  a Hyper-Space Drive and gives us a true and practical way of living in our modern technological society.
What is the answer to Love, Sex and Relationships? Who really has the most profound answers to such questions in our contemporary society? Should we listen to the doctors and pundits who advise Tiger Woods to seek therapy for "SEX ADDICTION?" Do we listen to the women on women talk show "The View" who advise his wife to remain with him just to collect a check? Why should this man remain married?   What would happen if Tiger Wood surface as a "Born Again Christian"  profess his life to Jesus Christ and promisees to be faithful to his wife?  Questions, questions, questions.  Buddhism has answers, answers, answers. These answers are inside of us and we chant to find the correct answers.
At the time of this writing both Chris Brown and Rihanna are 21 years old at best.  Imagine the challenges that are ahead of both of these fine youth. What is the answer to their issues of Love, Sex and Relationships.  Would we want to see either of them adopt a religion or a philosophy of life  that would cause them to become obsessive of disingenuous?  The profound teachings of Nichiren Daishonin's Buddhism offers the perfect solution.  Nichiren Daishonin's  helps everyone to tap their own innate wisdom to make the best decisions for their lives.  In Buddhism we follow the laws and customs and morales of our society. More importantly we tap our own wisdom.
Many of us Americans know about the mystical Biblical character of Samson who was reported to be the "Strongest man ever to live." Samson was brought down by a woman. The mystical story of Helen of Troy caused a war. King Edward of England gave up this thrown for the woman he loved. The great Napoleon almost went broke and was controlled by the woman he loved.

The Christian Bible tells of the story of King Solomon who was reported to be the wisest and richest man was manipulated and influenced by a woman. President John F. Kennedy and his brother was reported to have had sex with Marilyn Monroe. The FBI recorded a sex tape of Dr. Martin Luther King and sent the tape to Corretta Scott King. All of America know about the sexual encounter of President Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky.

Whatever logic, rationale and no matter how perfect we may believe that our beloved President Barack Obama may appear to be, the potential for a Love, Sex and Relationship drama exists even for our President if it has not already happen, but not exposed. We can look at the beautiful wife and children and what appears to be a perfect family however all humans are subject to challenges of Love, Sex and Relationships. The Profound teachings of Nichiren Daishonin's Buddhism not only define the problems, it gives solutions to these age old questions.
We will reture to this later in our lecture
Rihanna with L.A. Dodger outfielder Matt Kemp one year later.  The Buddha writes that all phenomena manifest its true nature. The nature of this phenomena is the law of cause and effect.
We humans live life according to our emotions and prior to us developing higher social systems like we have today we humans governed ourselves in past in the form of religious dogma. In the past and we lived by strict religious codes as such codes are followed today in many Islamic countries. In America today many people continue to govern their lives by the antiquated religious codes that govern human behavior. What religion is high enough to answer questions for a modern technological society? Nichiren Buddhism answers such questions. In today's society in America women will not take being assaulted as in the case of pop star Rihanna who was assaulted by her former boyfriend pop star Chris Brown. Nichiren Daishonin's Buddhism teaches us that "Earthly Desires equals Nirvana." Although neither are Buddhist the assault made them both better human beings. Chris Brown and many other men will be cautious before they allow their anger to overtake them to the point of assaulting a woman. America has strict laws and penalties that prohibit men from assaulting women and many men think twice before they will assault a woman. We Buddhist govern ourselves by developing the wisdom to govern ourselves based on the strict law of Cause and Effect. If we talk to Chris Brown we will more than likely learn that Rihanna incited her ass whipping from his point of view. In the case of Chris Brown who got angry to the point of whipping Rihanna's ass, if he were chanting he more than likely could have stopped himself from beating her. Rihanna on the other hand as well as other women must be careful not to incite a man to beat her ass again. If it comes up that New lover Matt Kemp beats her people will suspect that Rihanna is provoking such behavior from men. At this point in Rihanna she will find men waiting in line, but will she have the wisdom to choose the right man?When you chant Nam(u) Myoho Renge Kyo and practice the Buddhist teachings you gain a clear view of your emotions and you learn to channel your emotions in a more positive manner as opposed to the negative result that caused both Rihanna and Chris Brown so much grief. Buddhism teaches wisdom and the man who dates this woman will have to have a strong sense of character and confidence in himself.
We at the Proud Black Buddhist site added Japanese women to show that Love, Sex and Relationships is a challenge anywhere where there are humans.  These challenges are human challenges and Nichiren Daishonin's True Buddhism is a religion for all people and all circumstances.  Click on the picture on the right and get a personal review of the sex tape from Skyy John.  I think that Skyy John is hilarious and he offers some contemporary answers and solutions to these women.  Buddhism teaches that "Earthly Desires Equals Enlightenment" and whatever results of the sex tape getting out may have caused Chanting and practicing Buddhism offers a solution.  Nichiren Daishonin's Buddhism teaches that the answer is innately inside of all of us. When we chant Nam(u) Myoho Renge Kyo we gain the best solutions and circumstances out of any endeavor that will make us better humans.
Contrary to the Christian belief  we all do not  get married and live happly ever, however;  "the Lotus Sutra promises that those who practice the Buddha’s teachings ‘will enjoy peace and security in their present existence and good circumstances in future existences."

Click on Picture Rihanna finds new boy friend L.A. Doger Matt Kemp.

Rihanna & Chris Brown in past days.  Things change. This is a soul lecture please click on the above picture and enjoy the song that personaly use when I  think of Rihaana.
Tiger Woods high sweetheart Dina Parr gives a chilling interview of her and Tiger Woods dating for three years Tiger devestatingdevastating her with a terse  break up letter and he never having the decency to personally call her and tell her.  What is the cost we pay in life to be on top?  Buddhism teaches us that the causes we make will bring us the effects.  What cost did Dina Parr make to receive such a horrible effect. Nichiren Daishonin's Buddhism teaches us that we are soul responsible for our lives and we repent for our bad causes we made in the past and we chant and practice so we will have good circumstances in the future.
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